Last week i got a call from a female friend of mine from way back. We never talked often since she carries herself like she was out of my league ie am not friendly to the church. So i was surprised when i saw her face on my dail up especially over this issue below.
“I have decided to boot that guy,” cried my friend. “he makes me feel like the devil, praying vehemently immediately he ejaculates,” she concluded.
My friend was having a relationship with a pastor. They were both single and praying in the same church. As often happens between two single people, they were attracted to each other and the pastor was bold enough to initiate the conversation.
They started meeting privately and in no time were touching and smooching. Within a few days, they started having sex.
“What, sex with a pastor?” I asked you the devil ruinning the church i sniggered.
“Not like that dude we are in love but that is not why am booting him,” she said, “it is the prayers!”
According to my friend, it had become a bad habit and she had told the pastor to stop it, but he would not. In fact, she had told him that they did not have to have sex if it made him uncomfortable but every time they met, he insisted and she gave in.
The guy would then pray for hours, asking God for forgiveness and making the woman feel uncomfortable and sinful.
My friend also thought that the pastor was relating with two other girls from the church. She had met them several times in the pastor’s house in rather compromising circumstances, though each time he would frantically deny any relationship with them, even invoking the name of God.
She felt distressed and fed up, especially with the spiritual prayers and casting of demons after sex and had decided to walk out of the relationship.